THE KEY TO THE ANSWER
We complain when we are dissatisfied and discontented. There are many instances in our lives when we are in this kind of situation and we can’t help but complain, grumble and question. It has become automatic and natural for us to do. Sometimes we succumb to a defeatist attitude and entertain negative thoughts that are inevitably invading our mind. Today's 1st reading should jolt us back to reality. We do not realize that we are going against this call of St. Paul to the Philippians to be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation. Gratitude is something we can practice. It is the ability to focus on what we have rather than what we lack. It is a form of thanksgiving when we are offering up our pains and suffering to the Lord. An effective way of taking up our cross is by putting a name in our suffering, it could be the name of someone we love and offer it up instead of whine about it. We ought to shine like l...